回国一周了,先是和兄长,母亲一起,现在只有自己和母亲护理中风后的父亲。
自从父亲倒下,到如今都两个月了,父亲的病情倒是稳定,可也没有一点点好转的迹象,除了能自主呼吸,和脑死亡没有任何区别。
每天看着那熟悉的面孔,却又觉得那么的陌生。那张历经沧桑的面容,曾经有过的喜怒哀乐,如今毫无踪迹了。除了偶尔皱皱眉,别无变化。炯炯有神的目光,变得呆滞无光。多数时间都是闭眼酣睡,偶尔睁眼,能随说话的声音转动一下,也是视而不见,无神无意。
看到父亲的这样,很容易就联想到数年前的姥姥,不同的是姥姥当年患有老年痴呆,能说,能动, 只是言不达意,目光痴呆。人到了最后,殊途同归,都是如此吧。
每日常规护理是按在医院时的程序执行的。鼻饲只能是流食,每天四次,变着花样。蛋白粉(奶粉),鱼汤,水果汁,米汤,还要添加多种维生素。流食前后都要喂水,喂食之间也需要喂水。父亲以前是不喜欢喝奶粉的,可如今食不经口 ,没法也不能挑食了。平时一到下午就不怎么喝水,怕晚上起夜,现在也没这顾虑了。小便有特制的壶管尿袋,每天倒几次。观察小便的量和颜色,也能提示喂水的多少。倒是大便很难控制。由于是流食,大便量不多,可是每次翻身,都会有点儿,需要擦洗。这是脏活,大都是母亲在弄。哥在时,我擦洗过一两次。只有我和母亲时,也只能是我给父亲翻身,母亲擦洗。翻身也不轻松,虽然父亲已经骨瘦如柴,但搬动起来也很沉重,就像是抱孩子,醒着的时候不觉着份量,睡着的时候却很沉。每天要翻身3-4次,全身擦洗一次,好在家里有空调,要不然这么冷的天气,很容易感冒。
行医一辈子,都在照顾别人,能在父亲的最后一站护理老人家,也算是尽了一份心意。虽然不希望父亲就这么离去,可我知道,父亲恢复到正常的可能性很小了,只是时间的长短。好在没有痛苦,也感觉不到什么,生命其实已无意义了。
护理父亲
Fit as expected and less expensive than buying at the mall.
- Liberia
Timely arrival, replaced prior Air Monarch, new, happy with purchase
- Switzerland
Husband says this is the most comfortable sneaker he's ever worn. Loves them!!!!
- Guam
excellent tennis shoes, they look great and are very comfortable, they fitted as expected.
- Singapore
The Nike Air Monarch IV 415445-001 Men's Performance Running Shoes feels comfortable and great for walking
- Liberia
I ordered these for my husband who needed black shoes for work. He says they are very comfortable and fit perfectly!
- Switzerland
I love the Air Monarch 4, especially now that it doesn't seem to have the squeeking problem that plagued them before. Very comfortable.
- Singapore
These are exactly as described. The 4E means extra wide, but 3E was not available so I went for these.I now have a fresh bounce in my air step.Best Regards,
- Singapore
This is one of the few cross-trainer style shoes available in a wide width. These fit my feet much better than other athletic shoes. Note that the insoles do not come out.
- Singapore
I purchased this for my son and he loves them. He wants another pair in a different color but although the price was right, I'm a disabled single mother on a limited income so these were a humongous splurge but he deserves it.
- Switzerland
2024-01-12 08:55:24--
very cheap and came quick. audio quality is good for the price, bass is good, and despite my doubts, the ANC wasn't bad at all. I don't know how it is compared to real **, but the ANC on these definitely works well
2024-01-12 08:53:13--
2 weeks delivery, but came in authentic ** packaging, the audio quality is so good too
2024-01-12 08:53:10--
Looks exactly the same as a regular mag safe battery. The inside packaging is a different but the battery works the way it’s supposed to.
2024-01-12 08:47:19--
exactly as described. thanks!
2024-01-04 19:05:12--
Loved the AJ 13 really comfortable , I will definitely order again
2024-01-04 19:02:58--
Better then I expected A+++
2024-01-04 19:02:04--
received my shoes today one of two pair that I ordered from this seller. they fit perfectly and I love them. I also want to mention the professional customer service I received from this company. my shoes came in at different days and I thought that this pair was lost in the mail. they responded quickly and I found out that they were delivered the next day after the first pair and that I had not been notified that they were here I picked them up try them on and they are gorgeous I will be buying from this seller again thank you so much.
Cynthia
2024-01-04 18:58:44--
Super fast shipping. I ordered on 2/29, today 10/6 are here. Good quality - price! Thanks, I recommend it
2024-01-04 18:56:16--
I NEVER RECEIVED THE ITEM I HAVE INFORMED DELIVERY WITH MY SHIPPING COMPANY SO I CAN SEE AND TRACK THE PACKAGE BEFORE IT GETS HERE AND THE DAY BEFORE DELIVERY
MY SHIPPING COMPANY SAID THAT THE SELLER BOUGHT A LABEL BUT NEVER EVER SHIPPED THE PACKAGE AND THE SELLER DOES NOT WANT TO REFUND MY MONEY LYING SAYING THAT HE SHIPPED THE PACKAGE ABD NEVER DID DO NOT BUY FRIM THIS STORE
2024-01-04 18:55:03--
They were correct color wise but i the tongue and the sole of shoe are off compared to the actual pair. The inside regarding branding is also wrong. Everything else looks fine and i would recommend at your own risk.
2024-01-04 18:54:52--
Super fast delivery and good quality. About half a size to small (under normal sizing though)
2024-01-04 18:54:45--
I ordered since thanksgiving it arrived on the second week of January. I did wait a long time for them to arrive but the shoes are in good condition and pretty good reps for the price I paid for. Just looks a bit off but u get what you paid for :)
2024-01-04 18:53:58--
The color wasn’t what I expected but overall they were good.
2024-01-04 18:51:18--
They look good
2024-01-04 18:50:42--
Definitely legit😎😎
2024-01-04 18:49:21--
Came really fast 🔥🔥 very satisfied
2024-01-04 18:48:21--
super cute and well made shoes ! very satisfied
2024-01-04 18:44:26--
Best quality trainers received. I'm really impressed and happy with the quality. I would definitely recommend these trainers and this seller. I will use again. Items came faster than others ordered before this order.
2024-01-04 18:44:19--
These shoes are my favorites....they are well made and obviously very nice looking....I bought a pair for myself and my dad and he loves them as well....Had to buy him another pair to wear to church only... Cant go wrong with these....
2024-01-04 18:41:09--
Really good
2024-01-04 18:39:48--
I feel really good
2024-01-04 18:39:10--
perfect condition thanks
2024-01-04 18:36:17--
Great product. Fast shipping. Recommend !!
2024-01-04 18:34:43--
Very cute sneaker, I have the purse to match. I love it.
2024-01-04 18:34:15--
My husband liked it a lot. He has difficulty finding 4E. This fitted and felt just right!!
2024-01-04 18:33:41--
My first order on the gate and it was FIRE!!!! Didnt expect these to be so good. Compared to real Travis Scott Dunks and they are identical. Few off stiches but nothing that you wont find on the regular shoe. 10/10 will order from this seller again
2024-01-04 18:32:53--
love the shoes there amazing definitely buying from them boys again , came in a reasonable date, us the tracking instead of the link because the links in chinese
doesn’t updates , but the link does
2024-01-04 18:32:52--
I live in the Netherlands and it’s my Second time buying from and never had a bad experience.
This is a GREAT vendor the shoes are stunning and i’m getting a lot of compliments of it. I have size 38.5 (EU) but ordered an 39 and fits precisely so maybe order 1 size up!!
Ps. Box was pretty crushed but i dont really mind
2024-01-04 09:23:03--
Looks exactly like the picture thx
2024-01-04 09:22:36--
pretty good quality and really fast shipping!
2024-01-04 09:22:18--
solid frames. I wouldn't recommend this model of buffs though.
2024-01-04 09:20:36--
Genuine review uk! These are outstanding, look absolutely spot on. Seller even used evri in the uk to deliver for faster delivery. Also got a free pair of plain sunglasses which will come in handy. 100% be using this seller again in future.
2024-01-04 09:20:24--
Excellent! Very good quality love love love them
2024-01-04 09:20:17--
Very good, the logistics is fast, it will arrive in the United States within two weeks, the quality is very good, it is the style I want
2024-01-04 09:19:22--
Excellent quality trainers, arrived in just over 2 weeks to the UK. size up 1 size as definitely small fitting. second pair I have bought now, would recommend.
2024-01-04 09:19:00--
100% satisfied.
2024-01-04 09:16:04--
Super basketball good value for money
2024-01-04 09:14:42--
I am glad ! Arrived quickly, of good quality! I recommend this seller !
2024-01-04 09:13:08--
Very good replica. Will probably purchase more 3s from this seller. The shoes got here in 3 weeks.
2024-01-04 09:11:46--
Love these a lot would definitely order more and again
2024-01-04 09:11:13--
My first order never showed up but the seller was prompt to resend me my item and I got it very quickly.
2024-01-04 09:10:34--
These are super nice quality but the sizing is super weird. I am usually an 8 in women’s and order a 39 but they only had the 39.5 option and they are big on me. I am not sure why they don’t have the regular 39 size but either way the quality is super good and they come with a pair of socks. I will definitely buy another pair once I figure out which size to get.
2024-01-04 09:07:28--
The first time I used this seller and application to order, it was great! Received it in two weeks! The box is intact without any scratches! It includes dust bags and cards. I will definitely order more things from this seller, everything is fine and the shipment is fast
2024-01-04 09:07:05--
Looks very fake, so if you’re after something that looks somewhat real this is not the product for you. If you just want a cheap dupe, it’s for you.
2024-01-04 09:05:46--
I am very surprised, the goods are the same as described.
2024-01-04 09:04:51--
Absolutely amazing bracelet!!!! if you are looking for your sign to buy it, then look no further. The bracelet is so perfect. A perfect shade of gold, good weight, and does not make the cheap bracelet noise. My mum has a real bracelet which we compared, and it was almost exactly the same. The only difference is the chain between the clovers is longer. But honestly, you CANNOT tell the difference at all. It is so perfect and i will be ordering another three bracelets. Thank you very much to this seller!
2024-01-04 09:04:17--
I messaged twice about the order, they left me on read and never responded. They aren’t responsive. Thankfully I received it but it took 3+ weeks which is abnormally long. If they had responded to my messages I would have given 5 stars.
2024-01-04 09:03:17--
I LOVE LOVE LOVE my shoes!! They just as good as the real things!! Ordering many more soon! Thank you so much
2024-01-04 09:01:54--
pretty good. i love the quality
2024-01-04 09:01:52--
The sound quality is really excellent
2024-01-04 09:00:03--
the color is different from the item purchased and the item delivered
2024-01-04 08:59:50--
Headphones are really convenient, with good sound quality and quick link.
2024-01-04 08:59:06--
The earphone body is white, and this transparent case is actually a very good choice
2024-01-04 08:58:49--
in general, everything agrees. unfortunately, the case protects the screen very poorly. rants are too low
2024-01-04 00:07:37--
Great stuff, great texture
2024-01-04 00:04:13--
I don’t feel like the logo and chain are nearly as high quality as the original bag, I guess you get what you pay for
2024-01-04 00:03:58--
Purse is gorgeous and sturdy, downfall is that one side of purse print is upside down compared to other side - giving dead giveaway is not real. And although has many compartments is very small fit and coin section is tight/limited.
All in all you get what you pay for.
2024-01-04 00:03:57--
So, what I have noticed about this seller is that they will have the same item, this bag (neverfull MM), for example, listed several times at different price points. The more expensive the option, the closer to 4A or 1:1 you get. This was on the cheaper scale (around $30). The bag looks ok, but the change purse is cheap. Now I ordered a Neverfull GM at a higher price point from this seller and everything was beautiful.
2024-01-04 00:01:58--
Bag is great!! Looks very authentic. The only issues are the inner lining isn’t stuck down properly and the card holder isn’t that well made. Other than that it looks great. No one will see the inside anyways. Delivery only took roughly a month which I think is very quick to Australia.
2024-01-04 00:00:06--
Love these!
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